✵Hi everyone, this is the first story that I've decided to share today... Hope you guys enjoy✵
☪My favorite song to listen. i think it's vibing with my story little Chilling song fitting good to my story☪
"Is failure the same as failing?"
As I stepped into high school, I resolved to
break free from the shackles of self-doubt and chart a new course for my life.
I decided to embrace my failures as stepping stones toward success rather than
stumbling blocks holding me back. I realized that the only true failure is
giving up on oneself, and that, despite my past setbacks, I had the power to
change and evolve.
With this newfound perspective, I set out to
become a better version of myself, vowing to learn from my mistakes and improve
my weaknesses. I sought guidance from teachers and peers, not shying away from
asking for help when needed. Slowly but surely, my grades improved, and I found
myself excelling in some subjects that I previously struggled with. While it
was empowering to witness this transformation, there were still areas where I
felt weak– PE being one of them.
Physical Education classes were my nemesis; no
matter how hard I tried, my coordination and athleticism were subpar. Despite
my consistent efforts, I couldn't meet the expectations of my teachers or
peers, leading to feelings of frustration and inadequacy. However, I began to
realize that the outcome of my efforts didn't define me as a person. I started
embracing the idea that it's okay to fail in certain areas and that it's part
of being human.
This realization was crucial in my journey of
self-discovery. I understood that failure is not a definitive state but a
temporary setback, and it does not determine my worth as an individual.
Failure, in fact, became a stepping stone for personal growth, offering
valuable lessons and insights.
Through embracing my shortcomings, I learned
perseverance and resilience. Rather than being defeated by failure, I used it
as motivation to work harder and push myself beyond my comfort zone. Failures
became my guideposts, steering me towards a better version of myself.
As I continued to grow, I began to appreciate
the difference between "failing" and being a "failure."
Failing is an essential part of the journey to success; it is an opportunity to
learn, improve, and grow. On the other hand, being a failure implies a fixed
state of inadequacy and resignation to never change.
My journey taught me that failure is not a
label that defines me but a stepping stone to my personal growth and
development. By embracing failure, I found the courage to take risks, embrace
challenges, and discover new strengths within myself.
In conclusion, my middle school experiences of
constant failure served as the catalyst for profound personal growth during my
high school years. The journey of improvement was not without its challenges,
and while I continued to face failures in some areas, I learned to
differentiate between failing and being a failure. I discovered that failure is
not the end but a chance to begin again, to evolve and grow into a stronger,
more resilient individual. By embracing my shortcomings and learning from them,
I found the courage to forge ahead, knowing that my journey toward personal
growth would always be a work in progress.
✯My life was never easy neither too hard to handle. During 19 years i live i have seen lot of new things and understanding myself. And been through lot of things some of them happy and comfortable, some of them sad heart breaking and some of them tragic hard to believe. But in the end i have been through all of these moments and I'm more interested in the moment waiting for me in future. Is it will be happy or sad experiences? Who knows maybe i might become psychologist like i want dearly or become has social anxiety adult who afraid of make conversations with others...✯
